Date Spots: The Best San Diego Coffee Shops to Take Your Date

Date Spots: The Best San Diego Coffee Shops to Take Your Date

By Rachael Medina
Staff Writer August 04, 2019

While grabbing some ice cream or hitting up an adult arcade are undoubtedly fun things to do in San Diego, there is nothing quite like sitting in a coffee shop to get to know your date. Whether you are looking for the best organic coffee in the area, love a good pour over, or want a date spot with a lot of espresso options, we’ve got you covered. 

Bird Rock Coffee Roasters

Bird Rock Coffee Roasters serves up award-winning espresso drinks, cups of Fair Trade coffee, and much more at its various San Diego locations. Photo courtesy of @birdrockcoffeeroasters.

Recomended businesses

Show me
Recommended Businesses near

Discover the best of California. Our recommended businesses are top-quality and are committed to their communities.

Real Estate


Professional Services

Fitness & Wellness


Location: Multiple

Recognized by Roast Magazine as Roaster of the Year in 2012 and consistently rated highly by Coffee Review, Bird Rock Coffee Roasters aims for perfection. The boutique coffee shop goes above and beyond by exceeding Fair Trade standards, taking responsibility for the environmental impact of the coffee industry, and giving back to the local community. Pick up a latte at one of the storefronts, and while you’re there, grab a bag of organic coffee beans to brew at home or at the office for a brighter week.

James Coffee Co.

Location: 2355 India Street

James Coffee Co. is dedicated to serving high-quality, handcrafted, artisan-roasted coffee. Specializing in single-origin beans, this roastery is the perfect date spot that can satisfy even the pickiest coffee snob. Order the single-origin pour over to see why this location is one of the best coffee shops in San Diego, or try the specialty Mexican mocha or honey cinnamon latte for a taste of something new. The creamy horchata and refreshing coffee soda round out the options, providing a little something for everyone.

If amazing coffee isn’t enough to beat out the rest of your San Diego date spots, then perhaps its location will. Tucked into a large mixed-use development space with various retailers—including a home decor store, a premium eyewear company offering optometric services, a card shop, a barber, and a salon—James Coffee Co. turns up the cool factor in Little Italy. 

Cafe Virtuoso

Offering certified-organic coffee, creative espresso beverages, and numerous teas from around the world, Cafe Virtuoso has something to satisfy every craving. Photo courtesy of @cafevirtuoso.

Location: 1616 National Avenue

Situated southeast of the Gaslamp Quarter near the Coronado Bridge, Cafe Virtuoso serves up some of the best certified-organic, Fair Trade coffee in San Diego. The coffee shop has had many of its coffees tested by Coffee Review over the years—and all were rated 90 or higher. Visit the cafe for a cortado of espresso and organic half and half, an organic matcha latte, or an organic iced mocha featuring Peruvian chocolate. No matter what you order here, you will not be disappointed.

Communal Coffee

Location: 2335 University Avenue and 2221 Fern Street

Known for its frequently Instagrammed “Coffee + Flowers” mural at the North Park location, Communal Coffee is the ultimate first-date spot. Not only does it give you an excuse to cuddle up and take a photo together, but it also offers an extensive menu to satisfy any taste. Choose between the seasonal blackberry lavender latte, pear ginger lemonade, kombucha, sea salt caramel latte, and flower latte flight (or stay long enough to try them all). Whatever you decide to order, pair your drink with the incredible avocado toast made with rosemary sage bread, Maldon sea salt, smoked chili flakes, and cracked black pepper—and Communal Coffee will soon become your go-to San Diego date destination. 

Dark Horse Coffee Roasters

Pair a nitro cold brew showcasing local coffee with a vegan donut at one of Dark Horse Coffee Roasters' locations. Photo courtesy of @darkhorsecoffee. 

Location: 3260 Adams Avenue

Dark Horse Coffee Roasters is an ideal place to plan a date or grab a cup of coffee in San Diego. The roasters form direct relationships with farmers across the globe to bring you the highest-quality coffee possible. With an edgy yet approachable vibe, this coffee shop will definitely earn you that cool factor. Order the nitro cold brew with house-made vanilla bean syrup and a vegan donut, and you are sure to have a fun date. 

Ironsmith Coffee Roasters 

Location: 458 South Coast Highway 101

Established in 2013 and literally built by the founders—who worked on everything from the tiles, to the windows, to the drywall—Ironsmith Coffee Roasters is dedicated to quality, so head to this unique date spot in Encinitas, sit back, and enjoy cups of gourmet coffee as the ocean breeze flows through the open doors. 

Should you still find yourself looking for a different coffee shop in the San Diego area, check out The WestBean Coffee Roasters, Better Buzz Coffee, Cafe Moto, Coffee & Tea Collective, Holsem Coffee, or Young Hickory for equally awesome cups of joe—some of which feature coffee from the local roasters on our list. 

Staff Writer
Rachael Medina

Staff Writer Rachael Medina

Rachael Medina is the senior content writer and operations manager for She was born and raised just outside the Mojave Desert in Southern California and moved to the redwood forests o…

See full bio


author photo
Please enter text

You may also like


The Best Food in the Bay Area

Wondering where the hottest dining spots in the City by the Bay are? Read on to discover the best food …...Read more


Cheap Trips to Disneyland: 11 Things to Help You Do Disneyland on a Budget

While cheap trips to Disneyland take a bit of extra planning, your time will be well-spent when you save hundreds …...Read more


One Day in L.A.: How to Make The Most of a Short Trip to Los Angeles

Los Angeles, La La Land, The City of Angels—LA is a city full of nicknames and adventures waiting to be …...Read more


The 7 Best Healthy Restaurants in San Francisco

On the hunt for delicious, yet healthy meals? Make sure to check out the 7 best healthy restaurants in San …...Read more