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A Guide to the Perfect Napa Valley Bachelorette Party
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A Guide to the Perfect Napa Valley Bachelorette Party

For the perfect Napa Valley bachelorette party, here's a guide that covers every aspect of the celebration!


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February 16, 2022

Napa Valley is a heavenly escape. Greeting you with golden sunshine, green rolling hills, and endless acres of vineyards, this incredible Northern California destination is a promised land of pretty picnics, lazy laughs, and anything else that reassures you the future is bright. Simply put, if your ideal bachelorette party getaway is devoid of chaos, rowdy crowds, and packed nightclubs, Napa is where you need to be. To give you a kick of inspo, we’ve put together a Napa Valley bachelorette itinerary that’ll definitely ignite a wanderlust for this sparkling paradise. 

Ready to nail your maid of honor duties? These are the Napa Valley bachelorette party ideas that’ll help you plan the chicest and most effortlessly cool girls’ getaway possible.

Your girl is getting married! As the maid of honor, it's your job to make sure the bachelorette celebrations in Napa are as seamless as possible!

Where to Stay on your Bachelorette Weekend in Napa

Selecting the right hotel is perhaps the most crucial step of your Napa Valley bachelorette getaway. Whether you’re looking for a vintage farmhouse, a country-chic resort, or a luxurious resort, these are accommodations that won’t ever disappoint.


Location: Calistoga

Solage in Calistoga is the perfect place to detox, retox, and repeat. Regarded as a Napa Valley gem, this hotel set on 22 lush acres is ideal for a weekend of taking it easy in style. Sound like something your bachelorette crew would enjoy?

Alila Napa Valley 

Location: St. Helena

Nestled in a dreamy locale just a short walk from St. Helena’s vibrant downtown, Alila Napa Valley is perfect for a countryside Napa Valley bachelorette. Unwind at the dreamy estate, treat your girl gang to a spa day, and enjoy an incredibly relaxing stay at this St. Helena accommodation.

A relaxing night out with your besties at a SPA can be a nice addition to your bachelorette party.

Carneros Resort and Spa

Location: Napa

If you’re all about relaxed partying (yes, that’s now a thing), book your stay at the Carneros Resort and Spa. This Napa bachelorette party accommodation will have you hanging out in a hot tub, playing bocce ball, chilling around a fire pit, and going for bike rides in breathtaking locales—a dream! 

Bardessono Hotel and Spa

Location: Yountville

Elevated luxury and countryside elegance seamlessly blend together at Bardessono in Yountville. Surrounded by seemingly endless vineyards, this is the perfect place to have a spa day, walk through gardens, and immerse yourselves in views on a bachelorette weekend in Napa.

Where to Eat with your Bachelorettes in Napa Valley

Activities in Wine Country involve an incredible food scene full of farm-to-table options and picturesque dining settings. Want to know where to share bites and clink glasses on your bachelorette weekend in Napa? Allow us to guide you through.

What can be better than an awesome breakfast after a girls' night out?


Bouchon Bakery

Chef Thomas Keller's famous Bouchon Bakery in Yountville is the perfect spot for a sweet and short breakfast run on your bachelorette weekend in Napa. Perfectly reminiscent of a traditional French boulangerie, this bakery has the most delectable assortment of artisanal breads, pastries, sandwiches, and desserts.

Boon Fly Cafe

Want a more vibrant scene for breakfast? Reserve a table at Boon Fly Cafe. Fun, lively, and great to set the mood for the rest of the bachelorette trip in Napa Valley, this spot is as cute as can be. All their breakfast options are delish, but the signature donuts cannot be missed.

Enjoy lunch with your friends at this charming place. The food is organic, sustainable, and simply delicious.


Farmstead Restaurant at Long Meadow Ranch

Enjoy fresh, farm-to-table American fare at the Farmstead Restaurant at Long Meadow Ranch. With a focus on sustainable and organic farming, this casual St. Helena spot will have your bachelorette party crew reminiscing for years to come.

Angèle Restaurant and Bar

Feeling French? Angèle in Napa is the perfect spot for a laid-back afternoon of breezy bistro fare. Needless to say, dining here feels like escaping to the French countryside right in the middle of Downtown Napa.


The French Laundry

Napa Valley dinners are serious business, and three Michelin-starred The French Laundry does not mess around. Celebrated by critics and beloved by locals and travelers alike, this culinary bucket list restaurant will give you the most memorable dinner of any Napa Valley bachelorette getaway.

Morimoto Napa

For a more zen dining experience, book a table for the group at Morimoto in Napa. The innovative dishes here give you a feast for the eyes and soul and provide a culinary highlight on your bachelorette weekend in Napa.

You've booked the accommodation, food is covered, now it's time for all the super fun activities for an awesome bachelorette party in Napa!

What to Do on your Napa Bachelorette Party

There is much more to do in Napa besides throwing a winery bachelorette party. Choose an adventure or two that you and your girls would love and start booking; you’ll forever cherish the memories you make on this trip.

Soar Sky High with Napa Valley Aloft

You can’t come to Napa Valley with your girls and skip a hot air balloon ride. After all, this is the place in California to fly sky high. Trust Napa Valley Aloft to make your hot air ballooning experience a memorable part of your bachelorette weekend in Napa. 

Spend an Evening in Downtown Napa

For a laid-back day out in the town, head straight to Downtown Napa. A one-stop shop featuring luxury lodging, world-renowned restaurants, live music venues, and beautiful river walks, this destination is ideal for a day of winging it on your Napa Valley bachelorette getaway.

Sign up for a Group Cooking Class at the C.I.A. at Copia

For a great bonding activity with the bridesmaids, sign up for a private cooking class tailored for your group at the Culinary Institute of America. Roll up your sleeves, jump into action, share a great experience, and learn from the best in the game on your bachelorette trip in Napa Valley. You’ll definitely share a few laughs throughout the process. 

Scenic views of vineyards, breathtaking vistas of castles, and delicious food to snack on; having a picnic in Napa is perfect, to say the least!

Plan a Perfect Picnic in Napa

Napa Valley is a picnicker’s paradise. Many local wineries and parks provide perfect picnic settings and allow you to bring your own provisions (sometimes at a cost). Choose a setting that’ll be ideal for your Napa Valley bachelorette crew and start planning right away! 

Take a Ride on the Wine Train

Is the idea of a winery bachelorette party too cliche for your crew? Gather your gals and ride along the valley’s gorgeous scenery on the Napa Valley Wine Train. Combining fine dining with old-world elegance aboard a 20th-century train, this Napa Valley bachelorette party idea will give you plenty of memorable experiences and photo ops to cherish.

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