What I Wish I Knew Before Living in the Bay Area

What I Wish I Knew Before Living in the Bay Area

December 11, 2020

Living in the Bay Area can come with a lot of surprises for California natives and newcomers alike. From the strange California laws, to the insane housing prices (even near the affordable suburbs of San Francisco), to the constant threat of earthquakes, the Bay Area can take some getting used to. While many of us wouldn’t dream of leaving the "City by The Bay," there are a few things you ought to know before hiring a moving company and making the Bay Area your home. 

Everything I wish I knew before living in the san francisco bay area

1. Lane Splitting is a Thing

A sense of panic sets in when you see a motorcycle driving behind you, especially in traffic, because lane splitting happens frequently in California.

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Lane splitting can seriously scare you silly—especially if you’re new to California. According to the DMV, “California law does not allow or prohibit motorcycles from passing other vehicles proceeding in the same direction within the same lane, a practice often called ‘lane splitting,’ ‘lane sharing’ or ‘filtering.’ ” Ambiguity aside, it is a common practice, particularly in cities with a lot of traffic. 

Lane sharing can prove incredibly dangerous, as it requires every driver involved to pay closer attention to their driving. Use caution when changing lanes, accelerating in heavy traffic, and crossing bridges, as these are typical scenarios where lane splitting occurs.

2. People Actually Do Say “Hella”

Yes, really. Even after living in other parts of California, it still came as a shock. But if you want to fit in with the locals, you’ll have to find a way to incorporate the word into your vocabulary. 

3. If You’re Going to The City, You Always Need a Jacket

Even in the heat of summer, you'll want to pack a jacket when you go to San Francisco.

Even in the middle of summer, Karl the Fog comes out and makes life that much harder. The beaches are colder, the cool breezes are always flowing in, and the temperatures suddenly drop at some point in the day at least 95 percent of the time. 

But if you’re coming from the San Francisco suburbs, you’ll likely be underdressed if you don’t look at a weather app before heading into the city. Even driving from the East Bay into Oakland through the Caldecott Tunnel, you can experience a drastic temperature change, but entering the city is even more intense, so do yourself a favor and pack a jacket.

4. Earthquakes and Power Outages are Normal

You’d think Californians would be ready for these seemingly annual occurrences, but bottled water, ice, and battery-operated lanterns sell out almost immediately after reports of blackouts or earthquakes are announced. Do yourself a favor and assemble an emergency-preparedness kit as soon as you move in, keep extra batteries handy, always store ice (or blue ice packs) in your freezer, stow away some cash, and fill your pantry with canned goods and non-perishable items—just in case.

5. There Are Farmers Markets Everywhere

With unlimited produce to choose from, you'll want to explore the many farmers markets located throughout the San Francisco Bay Area.

Fresh produce is around every corner in the Bay Area, and there is always a new farmers market to find. While the markets are a great place to pick up some organic vegetables, they’re also the perfect spot to meet up with friends and try the best local eateries. Stop by the San Francisco Ferry Building during the Tuesday, Thursday or Saturday farmers market; find your way to Oakland’s Friday farmers market; and head to Fort Mason Center’s Sunday farmers market for a taste of the regional bounty.

6. Bay Area Neighborhoods are pricey

If you want to live in the Bay Area, especially San Francisco, be prepared to pay a premium.

It’s not surprising that the best Bay Area neighborhoods are often the most expensive ones. Presidio Heights, Seacliff, Haight-Ashbury, Nob Hill, Mission District, and Pacific Heights are undoubtedly the most coveted neighborhoods in S.F., for instance. (Nobody would mind seeing the Painted Ladies on their way to grab a cup of coffee from the best S.F. roasters or dine at Michelin-starred restaurants.) But living in the Bay Area is more than just staying in the best neighborhoods of San Francisco; there are more affordable places to live in the Bay—you just have to know where to look.

The most desirable suburbs of San Francisco consist of Oakland, Hayward, San Jose, Vallejo, and Walnut Creek. Dubbed the “Brooklyn of the Bay,” Oakland became an alternative to living in San Francisco thanks to its milder winters and warmer summers. Hayward isn’t nicknamed the “Heart of the Bay” for no reason—millennials and young families living here have easy access to Silicon Valley, Mountain View, and San Jose. 

As for affordable places to live near San Francisco, San Jose is a wonderful option. Having become one of the most modern cities in the world, it’s a great substitute for S.F. if you wish to live in a similar place and save money. Vallejo and Walnut Creek are perfect for raising families—you get to enjoy the best parts of the Bay Area without the hustle and bustle.   

7. Everything is More Expensive—Not just rent

From parking fees and sports games to movie tickets and pizza, everything costs more in the Bay Area. You pay a premium to live in this coveted area, so you’ll have to get used to it. While earnings are typically higher here, too, the cost of living in San Francisco feels much greater than it does in other California cities. 

Since apartments also tend to be smaller, they can be furnished for less—so take advantage of this opportunity to save some cash in the city. Learning how to cook at home and bringing a reusable water bottle with you (instead of purchasing drinks) can also be huge money savers when you’re living in San Francisco.

8. If You Have Pets, You Need To Know About Foxtails

Having pets is great, but protecting them from foxtails in the Bay Area can be a challenge.

The name might sound cute, but the pleasantries of foxtails end there. Foxtails are a grass-like weed whose tips look fluffy—but this “fluff” is actually a barbed seed head that is impossible for your pets to break down, leading to serious infections and even death if left untreated. Foxtails can injure your pet anywhere, but common irritation begins between the toes and on or in the nose, ears, eyes, or mouth. 

Basically, foxtails are the worst and can lead to thousands of dollars in medical bills (if not something more severe), so watch out for them when you go on walks or hikes in the Bay Area.

9. You Won’t Need a Car in San Francisco

Owning a car in San Francisco can be a huge inconvenience. There is a huge lack of parking, ridiculously steep hills, and never-ending streams of traffic, so chances are you won’t be driving much. If you live outside the city, however, having a car is much less of a burden—as long as you don’t drive into San Francisco. Parking can easily cost anywhere from $20 to $60 for a single day, making the necessary BART and Uber rides seem much more reasonable. 

While driving isn’t always a good option in the Bay Area, having a car will help you see the outskirts of the region and explore the beauty of Northern California. Marin, Mount Diablo, and Napa Valley, for example, are absolutely worth seeing, so make some friends with car owners if you don’t have one yourself.

10. You Should Follow BART Etiquette 

Having to commute on public transportation is hard enough on its own, so try to follow the unspoken BART rules to make it easier.

Riding public transportation isn’t exactly glamorous, but it is much easier and less expensive than the city’s alternative methods. Since it is the way the majority of people choose to commute for work and special events, it’s important to know the unspoken BART rules—like standing in line to get on the train, removing backpacks on crowded trains, and avoiding pungent lotions—before your first trip. 

Is there anything you wish you knew before moving to the Bay Area? Share your tips in the comments below.


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  • Lynn Manieri | Oct, 18

    I moved home after 44 years in the peninsula. I miss the bay so much I could taste it. Seriously, there is nothing like it in the whole world. Blessings to you who go... Reply

    • Kathleen | Oct, 20

      Amen. I was born & raised in SF. Lived there over 50 years. I miss the fog & the food. I still grab a jacket everywhere I go. Old habits die hard. Reply

  • E.A. | Oct, 19

    And I love the Bay also, but things are happening that nobody not even myself that are used to, so some choices might have to happen like moving away because it's sooooomuch more expensive than EVER! I was born in SF ,then moved to East Oakland when I was little. Now ,things are not the same but if you're plannning on not going anywhere to another city or state , just gotta set some goals, tough it out, try to think more clearly about your future and take one day at a time. Reply

  • Donald R Sterling | Oct, 19

    So paying very close attention while driving leads to "incredibly dangerous"? Glad you don't need a car. When I lived california I commuted 140 miles a day, splitting lanes daily. I always appreciated that drivers were very attentive, and most would make room, because 1 less car on the road means less congestion. Reply

  • Gigi | Oct, 18

    My father lived on Lombard Street after he got out of the Navy. He was a crane operator in the shipyards. He loved "his city". I 'm glad he's not here now to see what it's become. Reply

  • Mike | Oct, 20

    No better City in the world, with all of her weirdness and glory. If I could retire there, I would. Maybe that says it all. Reply

  • Patricia Brake | Oct, 20

    Grew up in San Francisco, never said "hella".....where did that come from??!! Reply

    • Christy | Oct, 21

      It was born in Oakland, believe it or not. I was born in SF and raised in Marin but I learned that from a new article! Reply

    • Chris | Oct, 23

      It’s an East Bay thing. I moved to the South Bay when I was 13. All my friends in the East bay started saying Hella in the 80’s. I never did. Reply


    "EARTHQUAKES AND POWER OUTAGES ARE NORMAL"?? Really? I've lived here for 20 years never experienced any. They may exist but certainly not a common occurrence. It's expensive based on where you choose to live. "Hella"? It's also a great place to live to escape bigotry and small town thinking. Reply

  • Justin | Oct, 23

    San Francisco is a shiy hole. Look nice from the bridges but when you go down into the streets you will see what I mean. Every staircase and stairwell smells like piss and shit. No where to park. When you are actually lucky enough to find a spot there is a 70 percent chance a junkie is going to smash your window. Everything cost way more than it should. People all think they are special because they live in SF. Traffic is a nightmare as well so the constant congestion from construction. SF is the most over hyped city in all of America. I been in the Bay area for 40 years. Never go there now unless I absolutely have to. Many better places to live and spend your time in the Bay. Reply

    • S | Oct, 26

      I agree wholeheartedly. The city is not the beautiful place it was. Streets are filthy. Homeless population has overrun most areas. A more abundant and easier way of life can be found outside of Northern California. Reply

  • Lili | Jan, 14

    I love the article! Thank you Reply

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